was craving for pasta since yesterday...so i "demanded" my Chef to cook it for me... digged in the fridge and found we still have some squids and prawns and since we've got a bottle of white wine, so the Chef said he'll cook me some seafood pasta...yeah...

and this is what we just had 20minutes ago.... i called it "Chef Pat's Seafood Pasta"...

mine...i like it spicy...so he added some cili padi harvested from our garden...
his...

yummy...yummy

am sooo full now....burppp...excuse me...hehehe

new look for my blog...

was searching for a new template and i found this template from http://finalsense.com/index.htm...i love this template a lot...

i have even changed the blog header...

to me...a child look most serene and at peace when they are sleeping and dreaming away...that's why i love to look at them sleeping...

I have been asked countless times on when I’m settling down ie: getting married…and frankly speaking…I’m tired of answering the same questions over and over again…friends are very understanding…when I just gave them answer…like…”we plan to settle down in maybe another 1 or 2 years…let us enjoy what we have now…before we take the very next big step in our life”

When it comes to aunties and uncles asking us this question…we get totally annoyed…they’ll start telling us…oh…both of you are not young anymore…cousin so and so…he/she is younger than both you…they got married…and now already have 2/3 kids…I’m not against of people who got married at young age and have kids at young age…no doubt there are benefits of being young parents…it’s just that different people have different needs…I’m not saying that kids are a burden to us….I LOVE children…it’s just that it’ll be totally different…now we can do anything spontaneous…want to get away for holiday…just pack the bags…and go…

Just today…someone pisses me off….this someone…who is younger than me…gave me a lecture on why I must get married and have kids now…why would I want to wait for another 1 to 2 years….mind you…this someone…whose life is so messed up…constantly having relationship problems with all her boyfriends…she used to be very close to me until a couple of years back…when she was with her then ex boyfriend who is 4 years younger than her…he got her pregnant…that guy was just 20yrs old at that time…obviously he would not want to marry her and settle down…so the only solution for her is obviously not to have the baby…her parents doesn’t know about this…until today…I have told her many times…not to put in 100% trust in that guy…obviously…love is blind…she was so blinded by him….she just could not care much…2 days after the abortion…that a**hole…disappeared…hiding away from her…she went to his house and waited for him from day to night…until that guy’s mum have to chase her away…gosh…it’s damn embarrassing….

she is also well known among my ex colleagues for being an irresponsible person no matter its work related or non work related…she is the kind of person who runs away from problem…her ex colleagues told me, they got a hell of time working with her…even after she was absconded from work…yeah…she left her job just like that….MIA…no resignation letter…no notes…not even a phone call to inform the boss…and...that’s not the first time…she did that several times…see…do you want advise from a person like that…do you want a person like that to tell you how you should live your life…nyeh…A person who don’t know the meaning of RESPONSIBILITY…COMMITMENT….what she knows is whenever there’s problem…just RUN AWAY FROM IT…

My first attempt at digi-scrapping...

Finally, I've got some time today to do a bit of scrapping...have downloaded couple of free digital kits...man..it's damn addicting doing it...

This year is definitely a prosperous piggy year...BUT not for me...I've got a total of 6 "red bombs" aka...wedding invitations for this year that I have to attend...not only that I've got another 2 that I can't attend cos it will be held in overseas...top of that I've got 2 friends that will be giving birth soon...wow...on top giving angpow...i used to loved buying gifts for such occasions...but this time...i really cracked my head thinking what to buy...

it's been really crazy for the past couple of weeks...had a meeting 2weeks ago in Westin KL...it took me a month to get everything organised...my ex boss have actually organised and have everything finalised...but he left the company in such short notice...he did not handover anything to me and I could not contact him as he's travelling...so, i've got to contact those people from the hotel and get everthing from them...anyway, the meeting was a success...the hardwork are all paid off....phewwww

organising the meeting was easy...the difficult part was to organised the "entertainment" part for them...we have 20 guys coming from different countries....everynight, me and my colleagues have to bring them out for dinner and after dinner, they requested to "see" the KL night life...lucky me as i'm the only lady in the group, so it was not so "convenient" for me to follow them around...cos some places that they went to...ladies are not allowed...anyway, it was a tiringggg week....got to get out from the house at 7am everymorning to get to the hotel in time...then after the meeting, got to attend dinner till 10pm...then by the time i get home it was 11pm...i was totally knocked out....

then the following week, we have got a visitor from Australia visiting our office...againnnn....we have to entertain her...i took a day off yesterday to bring her shopping...gosh...she can really shop! took her to Bukit Bintang and we shopped from 10am till 4pm...

anyway, the best day was on Wednesday, I was "reunited" with my ex schoolmates that I have not met for 15years!!! and Friendster "reunited'' all of us! it was such a great night...we had dinner at Italiannies...the food sucks...but i guess all of us could not care more about the food....cos most of the time we were yakking instead of eating....

it was great to meet up with the girls after so many years...there were so many things to catch up...and we spent almost 5hrs there...and we are planning for another get together soon...ahhh...can't wait....

anyway...gotto do a little bit of blog hopping now...haven't been blog hopping for few weeks ...